Saturday, May 30, 2020

PASSION OF JOAN OF ARC

The Passion of Joan of Arc
100 years after the canonization of St. Joan of Arc, this film has never seemed more relevant.
Joan of Arc was burned at the stake in 1431.
She was canonized 100 years ago in 1920, and a year later the transcripts of her trial were published.
It was also at this time that one of the most promising young movie directors in Europe, Carl Dreyer, was invited to France to make a film. It was to be on any subject of his choosing. The Danish director afterward said that initially he was considering the lives of three potential French women about which he might make the film. The way he devised to choose which of these women’s lives would become the film was unusual. Ironically, it was by the drawing of matches that the Maid of Orleans emerged as his subject. For the next 18 months Dreyer set about researching the life of the peasant girl from Domrémy.
Crucial to the film was the casting of Joan. It is said that Dreyer scrutinized many actresses with a view to them playing the part but in none did he find the quality he sought. Frustrated, he walked the Paris streets whereupon he spied a theater where a light-hearted comedy was playing. Studying the actresses onstage, one caught his eye. She was beautiful, if heavily made-up, acting with comedic charm; nevertheless, there was something that drew him to her.
Dreyer returned the next day to the theater. After the performance, he went backstage. He found the actress; Renée Jeanne Falconetti was her name. He talked to her and, as he did so, he noticed something remarkable. Beneath the powder and paint, there seemed to exist an altogether different quality. He asked her to attend a screen test the next day. She did so. She was told to remove all her makeup. This she did. While the cameras rolled, Dreyer watched through the viewfinder, as before his eyes there came into focus the ‘Joan’ he had been searching for.
Later Dreyer was to write of Falconetti:
There was something in her which could be brought out; something she could give, something … I could take. For behind the makeup, behind the pose and that ravishing modern appearance, there was … a soul behind that façade … but also a woman of suffering.
From the start of filming there was an intensity on the set. Soon, the shoot became a grueling experience for Falconetti. Too grueling, some contend, with the tyrannical director extracting a performance like no other from an all too fragile actress. When it came for her head to be shaved, as the saint’s was just before her burning, Falconetti suffered some sort of breakdown. What was even more telling was that, at that point, the whole film crew suffered an emotional collapse as well. Later, when audiences viewed the film, they were no longer watching a part being played within a drama. Instead, before their eyes, there appeared something truly remarkable — transcendent even.
From the first frames, The Passion of Joan of Arc has a particular magnetism. The much-lauded editing with its claustrophobic close-ups propelling the audience into a world unseen because in this film what is being shown to us — if one has eyes to see — is the inner life, present in a way that few filmmakers have achieved. The fact that the film is based on the testimony of history lends it an almost documentary feel. Even when seen today, it looks as if it could have been filmed yesterday, or, if it had been possible, in the 1430s. Few if any films have a similar impact, in rendering performance and audience timeless.
In 1928, The Passion of Joan of Arc was released. Like the saint, the cinematic Joan was rejected. A new set of inquisitors demanded that the film “be consigned to the flames.” Mysteriously, that is what happened. Soon after its completion, the original film “disappeared” on account of fire. Painstakingly, Dreyer recreated it again from outtakes, but, shortly afterward, that negative, too, was obliterated in yet another fire. The film was censored and shunned, with the subsequent fires seemingly acting out the wishes of those new “persecutors” of the film as one of the greatest pieces of cinematic hagiography went up in smoke.
Thereafter, a few botched and butchered prints emerged from time to time; none were the version of the original print, however. And, consequently, a French version of the “second cut” surfacing in the 1950s was promptly and angrily dismissed and disowned by Dreyer.
Nevertheless, over the decades The Passion of Joan of Arc was still talked of in hushed tones by cinema’s cognoscenti. The film’s reputation grew even if this was based on stills and the screenings of truncated versions. When Dreyer died in 1968, one of his greatest masterpieces remained lost. But, just as the flames at Rouen could not destroy the 19-year-old mystic, so too the fires that destroyed the original movie could not prevent its subsequent reappearance, if in an unexpected way and in an unforeseen place.
In 1981 a janitor was cleaning out a closet in a mental institution in Oslo. Whilst doing so, he discovered three film canisters. They were passed to the Norwegian Film Institute where they lay unexamined for another three years. Finally, they were opened and found to contain an almost pristine, certified print of Dreyer's original 1928 cut of The Passion of Joan of Arc. To this day no one knows why or how these prints ended up at the hospital, for the film was never released in Norway. On account of the fact that her original accusers had branded Joan and her “voices” “madness,” the place of this “finding” appeared ironic.
Whereas the original 1928 release was raged against, from the 1980s onwards, throughout the film world, the restored version of The Passion of Joan of Arc became all the rage. From the ashes, a “celluloid saint” had arisen once more to claim her place in cinema history.
The actress at the film’s centre, Falconetti, was never to make another film. And yet, her 1928 screen performance now ranks as one of the greatest in film history — attested to again and again by being chosen to feature on critics’ lists, decade after decade. Maybe it was the film’s initial controversy that stunted the possibility of other film work for its star. Then again, given what she had helped create, perhaps artistically there was nothing left for her to say. As the film drifted off into obscurity in the decades that followed, Falconetti drifted too. When the Nazis marched into Paris, she fled France, ending up in South America. By 1946, impoverished and in ill health, she had made it as far as Buenos Aires. It was there, in still unexplained circumstances, her life was to end.
The Passion of Joan of Arc is a film about suffering in confinement, stripped of everything — even the sacraments. Ultimately, it is a cinematic portrait of abandonment to the will of God. In 2020, 100 years after the canonization of St. Joan of Arc, this film has never seemed more relevant.

JOAN OF ARC



St. Joan of Arc as Seen by Shakespeare, Mark Twain and St. Thérèse
The Maid of Orléans will be a focal point of artists for generations to come but most will pale in comparison to William Shakespeare, Mark Twain and the Little Flower
I’m pretty sure boasting is not an activity many saints take part in but if they did, no other saint could strut around the pearly gates asking everyone if plays and stories about them written about them by such diverse authors such as William Shakespeare, Mark Twain and St. Thérèse of Lisieux.
Few saints have captured the imagination of so many artists as Saint Joan of Arc. Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky and Giuseppe Verdi both wrote operas about the saint. Voltaire and Coleridge both wrote poems of varying quality about her. But let’s be honest: having Shakespeare, Twain and St. Thérèse all writing plays and books about one saint is rather unique.
So let’s get into it.

William Shakespeare
Not many people remember that a play that is believed to have perhaps been Williams Shakespeare’s first play had Joan of Arc as the villain of the piece. Okay — he may not have portrayed her as Hannibal Lecter but she was definitely the antagonist and was painted as a religious fraud with base morals.
Yup. William Shakespeare. The Bard, who is believed by many to be Catholic, vilified the great saint (before she was declared a saint). In his play Henry VI, Joan is portrayed by William Shakespeare as a witch and perhaps even a woman of... loose morals… who is deservedly executed.
In order to stave off execution, Shakespeare had Joan pretending to be pregnant, thus justifying her condemnation and death.
Now, there may be reasons for this portrayal. First, Shakespeare may not have written it alone. He may have had co-writers. Second, at the time Shakespeare was writing, Queen Elizabeth was none too friendly toward Catholics. In fact, at the time, they were being persecuted violently. So a play that had Joan of Arc as a sympathetic leading character would probably not go over too well if the saint were portrayed as... well... a saint. So some give Shakespeare a wide berth on this one. Others say that being raised in England at the time he knew nothing but the English view of Joan of Arc as a warrior enemy of England.

Mark Twain
On the other hand, Mark Twain's book on Joan of Arc is largely overlooked by history but in his own opinion it was his finest work. Okay, to be completely accurate it wasn't written by “Mark Twain.” It was written by Samuel Clemens, whose regular pseudonym was Mark Twain, but in this case he published his book under a different pseudonym: Jean François Alden.
Twain once said, “I like Joan of Arc best of all my books; and it is the best; I know it perfectly well. And besides, it furnished me seven times the pleasure afforded me by any of the others; twelve years of preparation, and two years of writing. The others needed no preparation and got none.”
Twain, as you can see, held a bit of a different opinion on St. Joan than Shakespeare. He wrote of her, “She rises stainlessly pure, in mind and heart, in speech and deed and spirit, and will so endure to the end of time.”
Unlike Shakespeare, nobody ever thought Twain as a Catholic. In fact, he was raised in a Southern culture that was deeply suspicious of Catholicism and its veneration of saints. In fact, he once stated that he had been taught ‘enmity toward everything that is Catholic.’” In fact, he had a complicated relationship toward all of Christianity.
But George Bernard Shaw, who also wrote a play called “Saint Joan,” once accused Twain of being “infatuated” with Joan of Arc and said he “romanticized” her. Let’s just say Shaw didn't romanticize her in his play. T. S. Eliot said that Shaw’s Joan “is perhaps the greatest sacrilege of all Joans: for instead of the saint or the strumpet of the legends to which he objects, he has turned her into a great middle-class reformer.”

Saint Thérèse of Lisieux
But the next author is one that really intrigued me. Saint Thérèse of Lisieux wrote the great The Story of a Soul, which I’ve read and re-read many times.
One cannot think of two saints being more different than St. Thérèse of Lisieux, also called the Little Flower, and Saint Joan of Arc. Yet, St. Thérèse had a great affection and admiration for Joan of Arc.
In fact, she honored Saint Joan with several poems and two plays. In her plays she starred as Joan and several photographs were taken of St. Thérèse dressed as Saint Joan for her first play that was performed in 1894. She actually performed the plays in her convent with other nuns and then later in a sequel:
I suspect Joan of Arc will continue to be the focal point of artists for generations to come but most will pale in comparison to William Shakespeare, Mark Twain and St. Thérèse of Lisieux.
This article originally appeared Feb. 5, 2020, at the Register.
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Wednesday, May 6, 2020

WINNING ANSWERS


WINNING ANSWERS
1 Peter 3:15-16
But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behaviour in Christ may be ashamed of their slander. (NIVUK)
Read the verses around this Bible passage from the Internet Bible: in English, and many other languages
God's truth has its own inbuilt power.  We can never force people to believe in Jesus - trust grows as they discover that Christ is trustworthy.  Our task is to explain who Jesus is and what He has done, so that others will be persuaded to take action (2 Corinthians 5:11) by repenting and turning to follow Him.  One of the reasons the Holy Spirit has been given to us is so that we can announce Christ with confidence (Acts 1:8). 

We are called to be the light of the world (Matthew 5:14-16), our lives of love encouraging people to enquire about Jesus.  It is natural that they should ask questions about our faith and the reason we behave differently.  But if it is not obvious that we respect the questioner, how will they know that God loves them: and if we do not win their trust, why should we expect them to trust the Lord?  So, we need to honour them by sharing our faith gently, respecting that each of them is also made in the image of God (Genesis 1:26).

Good behaviour is a clear witness of Christian character.  It should be the backdrop against which people ask questions, seeking the reason for our gladness and courageous endurance.  It is also the best defence against accusations of double motives, manipulation and other features which mark membership of a cult.  Of course, some will still find any excuse to ridicule believers, but their mocking should eventually give way to a sense of shame for having slandered the innocent.

Hostility can bring out the worst in us. A violent or cynical question might make us want to respond with aggression: but Proverbs 15:1 says, “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”  Jesus let the wicked condemn themselves: His silence proved their guilt and His innocence (Isaiah 53:7) (1 Peter 2:23). So, when the spotlight is on us, because we belong to Christ, we have no need to think of clever arguments or powerful words to win the argument. Simply say what is true about Jesus and let the Holy Spirit convince them of their need to repent and receive the Saviour (Luke 12:11-12).

God of truth and love. Thank You that I know the daily presence of Jesus through the Holy Spirit. Please forgive me when I disown Him by failing to live for Him or speak about Him. Please help me to present Your truth graciously and to live a holy life, so that others may be convicted of their sin, and long to find their Saviour. Even when they refuse to respect me, help me to go on loving them, as You do. Help me to trust that You will use my gentle words and Christ-like lifestyle to show them it is possible to repent and be saved. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.








Monday, May 4, 2020

READY TO ANSWER



READY TO ANSWER
1 Peter 3:14b-15a
… do not be frightened.’ But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord.
People cannot become followers of Jesus if they have not heard about Him, and what He has done to save us (Romans 10:14).  Although there are millions of Christians in the world today, many of their friends and colleagues have not yet heard them speaking about Jesus Christ.  Some believers think that their faith is a private matter only for them; but Jesus told us to make more disciples for Him (Matthew 28:19).  Many others are simply afraid of an adverse reaction from friends and colleagues.  But Peter says, "Don't be frightened!"
Some believers have the gift to preach or teach publicly, but everybody who honours Jesus as their Lord and Master should want to speak well of Him.  Most of the opportunities will come when we are questioned about our faith or lifestyle. So each born-again Christian should be ready with simple answers such as, "I believe in Jesus so I am learning to obey and follow Him"; or, "I know that I am going to heaven because Jesus died for me".  Of course, these answers will probably trigger more questions, but trust the Holy Spirit to help you (Acts 1:8) - and never be ashamed to say when you do not know, because you are willing to find out and tell them later.
The key to confidence in speaking about Jesus is how dearly we hold Him in our hearts.  If He is just a religious teacher who we admire, fear will stop us exalting Him.  But if He fills our hearts - higher than every other thought and desire - then nothing can stop us from announcing Him to the world (2 Corinthians 5:11-15).   
Part of the reason for going to church and Bible study is to get prepared to answer questions about Jesus.  This is a significant part of any church leader's responsibility (Ephesians 4:11-13) .  We should not just listen to teaching but use it to prepare ourselves to answer questions.  Many people want to find the secret of life and hope after death: they will search throughout the internet, but the answer is only found in Jesus (Acts 4:12).  But your friends may never know how to be saved if you are not prepared to tell them.  If you belong to a workplace Christian group, why not use that time to prepare your hearts and your answers - it could save someone's life.
Gracious God. Thank You for the people who first told me about Jesus. Please forgive me for my fear of how people might reject me. I confess that I have not told them of how wonderfully You have accepted me, forgiving me all my sin. Help me realise how wonderful Jesus has been towards me so that I will not be afraid or ashamed of speaking about Him. I really do want Him to rule my life today and prepare me for tomorrow. So please help me to work with Your Holy Spirit, by Your Word, to know how to answer questions about following Jesus. In His Name. Amen.









Friday, April 17, 2020

PRAYER TIPS


                                                       PRAYER TIPS
On his way out to recess one day, 9-year-old Bobby said to his teacher, “Sister Michelle, could you please say a prayer for me today?”
“Sure, Bobby,” Sister said. Then she asked, “Do you have a problem or some special reason you want me to pray for you?”
“No,” the boy replied. “I just thought it would be neat to have someone who talks to God every day talk about me.”
Bobby was only 9, yet he knew something very important about his teacher: She was someone who talked to God every day. She was someone who prayed. In fact, one of the most definitive traits of a healthy Christian spirituality is prayer.
One of my favorite definitions of prayer was given by Catherine de Hueck Doherty, who wrote: “Prayer is love. It is love expressed in speech, and love expressed in silence. To put it another way, prayer is the meeting of two loves: the love of God and our love.” A good friend of mine once described prayer in a similar way. She said, “Prayer is being in the presence of someone I love and who loves me.”
Which brings us to a very important question: Why do we pray anyway? If God is all-knowing, as our faith tells us God is, then why bother to pray? After all, God already knows what’s on our minds and in our hearts, so why should we waste time telling God what God already knows?
There are two answers to this question. First, God may know what’s on our minds and in our hearts, but do we know? Life can get so busy and so hectic at times that we easily lose touch with our thoughts and feelings. Prayer is our “time out” from the busyness of life to reflect on our deeper needs and desires. One reason we pray to an all-knowing God, then, is this: to discover what is really on our minds and in our hearts. Honest prayer helps us do that. And why is it so important to get in touch with our deepest needs and desires? Because that’s precisely where God usually speaks most clearly to us.
Another reason we pray is not only to discover what we think and feel, but also to learn what God thinks and feels. As we said earlier, prayer is a two-way street. When we pray, we give our all-knowing God a chance to communicate with us. This is risky business. All prayer is. By inviting God to speak to us, we risk being changed; that is, we risk having our attitudes altered, our perspectives broadened, our plans modified. And, if we are honest with ourselves, most of us resist change.
I was counseling a woman once who, as a child, was abused by her parents who are now deceased. For years, this woman clung to her hatred for her parents. Eventually she stopped praying. When I asked her why she no longer prayed, she said simply, “I’m afraid if I pray, God will somehow convince me to forgive my parents, and I can’t do that — not yet.” I admired her honesty. Her words also told me she knew exactly what prayer could lead to: God somehow persuading her to change, in this case, to forgive her parents, something she clearly did not want to do — at least “not yet.” This woman’s “not yet” gave me hope that, in time, she might make herself available to God’s convincing love. I heard later she did.
Quotes on prayer
I’d like to share some of my favorite quotes on prayer and say a few words about each of them:
1) Pray as you can, and do not pray as you can’t. Take yourself as you find yourself; start from that. 
This is excellent advice. If today we don’t feel like praying, that’s OK. We start our prayer with that. Maybe on another day we feel depressed or we’re worried about something. That’s fine too. We bring those thoughts and feelings to our prayer. Or maybe we’re very busy or very happy about something. That’s good too. Wherever we find ourselves today, we start our prayer from there.
2) God walks amid the pots and pans. 
Sometimes we think we have to go somewhere special to pray — for example to church, to a park, or to a retreat center. Although it is good on occasion to find places that are very conducive to prayer, the fact remains: Any place can be a good place for prayer. We can pray in the car on our way to the mall, at the bank while standing in line, at the kitchen sink as we do the dishes, or even in the bathtub. Most of us learned as little children that God is everywhere. This means that prayer can be everywhere too. Most of us learned as little children that God is everywhere. This means that prayer can be everywhere too.
3) Of all things we do, prayer is the least practical. 
Sometimes we see the results of our prayer. Maybe we receive a favor we asked for, we get the grace to do something difficult, or we experience consolation. When this happens, we thank God, of course. But the truth is, most of the time we will not see any results of our prayer — but that’s perfectly OK. For we do not pray to get results. We do not pray to get anything. We pray to love Someone. We also pray to become someone: the person God is calling us to be. Ordinarily we become that person not by dramatic leaps and bounds, but rather by barely noticeable baby steps.
4) The only way you can fail at prayer is to not show up. 
If we keep showing up for prayer, we have not failed at prayer — even if we feel our prayer is inferior, difficult, or boring. If we persevere in prayer, that in itself is a wonderful grace. In this regard we should remember that when we read all the teachings of Jesus on prayer, we find one recommendation repeated constantly: perseverance. The person who prays well, then, is the one who keeps showing up for prayer, the one who perseveres.
5) A lot of trouble about prayer would disappear if only we realized — really realized — that we go to pray not because we love prayer, but because we love God. 
In everything I have said about prayer, we must remember that prayer is not an end in itself. It is only a means to an end. The end of prayer is love of God and the fulfilling of God’s will. The end is, as I quoted earlier, “the meeting of two loves.”


Monday, March 23, 2020

PERSONALLY PRIVILEGED


                           PERSONALLY PRIVILEGED
                                    1 Peter 1:20-21
He [Jesus] was chosen before the creation of the world, but was revealed in these last times for your sake. Through him you believe in God, who raised him from the dead and glorified him, and so your faith and hope are in God.
When sin made an ugly mess of God's perfect world, it did not take Him by surprise. The Divine rescue for humanity, through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ, was not an afterthought; it was all in the original plan (Titus 1:2).  Even before the world was created in all its beauty, God knew that the first man and woman would spoil everything. But even before anything went wrong, God had planned for Jesus to be the way for everything to be made new again (Revelation 21:5). His death was not an accident, but an appointment which had been made ages before (Galatians 4:4-5).

The revelation of God’s plan was prophesied but not understood (Isaiah 53:1) until God showed Jesus to the world (Luke 2:30).  His death, resurrection and ascension of Jesus were a confusing sequence of events to the authorities (1 Corinthians 2:8), but God’s provision for us. As well as being for God's glory, He intended us to benefit personally. Without His intervention, and His revelation of His actions in the gospel, we would still be lost - far away from God and unable to have any relationship with Him. If Christ had not come to us, we could not trust God for anything: our lives would have remained without meaning or hope for this life and the eternity to come (Ephesians 2:12).

Peter makes the redemption story very personal to his readers, and us: it was ‘for your sake... so that your hope and faith are in God’.  Although many people claim to believe in God (the demons also believe in His power, and they tremble in fear – James 2:19), there is no personal relationship with God except through Jesus (John 14:6) (1 Timothy 2:5).  It is one thing to believe in God’s existence, another thing to have the confidence to come close to Him through the blood of Christ (Hebrews 10:22) and call Him Father (Romans 8:15).  The revelation of Jesus ‘for your sake’ came through the authority of Jesus (Acts 1:8) and the inspiration of the Holy Spirit to the Apostles (Galatians 4:6) (Ephesians 3:2-5) .  The purpose is that you might believe in God as Father and become His child (John 1:12) trusting Him for this life and eternity.

So, if you have trusted in the Lord Jesus Christ, please don't accept the lie that God does not know or care about you. Do not live today as if heaven has forgotten you and hell is about to swallow you up - that is cruelly untrue. As you go to work today, doing your business and attending to family at home, remember that Jesus Christ came to earth for you. Be thankful that He suffered because He loved you and wanted you to become a part of Father God's family.  And don't forget Romans 8:32 which says, "He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all - how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?"  The love of God is overwhelmingly generous to those who know and trust Him personally.

Dear Lord God. Thank You for the revelation of your salvation plan in the gospel. Please forgive my slowness to be grateful for all that You have done for me personally. How easily I forget Your love and the willing sacrifice of Jesus, which was planned even before You made the world. Help me to trust Your Word to me today, so that I may grow in confidence of Your love towards me. And help me to believe that You will personally provide for all my needs, and help me to live as a citizen of heaven. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.


Saturday, March 21, 2020

SUFFERING AND POPE FRANCIS


MEETING OF HIS HOLINESS POPE FRANCIS
WITH A GROUP OF GRAVELY ILL CHILDREN AND THEIR FAMILIES       (2015)
When, during catechism class, we were taught about the Most Holy Trinity, they spoke to us of a mystery: that yes, there is the Father, the Son, the Holy Spirit, but it could not be entirely understood. It’s true, we have evidence that it is true, but understanding it is another thing. Evidence we have. Here too, if we look at Jesus, the Eucharist, Jesus is there in that piece of bread, it’s true. But how is it so? I don’t grasp how it could be... but it’s true, it is He. This is a mystery, we say. And in the same way, if we ask some other questions about the catechesis, they can't be understood in depth, but we have proof.
There is also a question, whose explanation one does not learn in a catechesis. It is a question I frequently ask myself and many of you, many people ask: “Why do children suffer?” And there are no answers. This too is a mystery. I just look to God and ask: “But why?” And looking at the Cross: “Why is your Son there? Why?” It is the mystery of the Cross.
I often think of Our Lady, when they handed down to her the dead body of her Son, covered with wounds, spat on, bloodied and soiled. And what did Our Lady do? “Did she carry him away?” No, she embraced him, she caressed him. Our Lady, too, did not understand. Because she, in that moment, remembered what the Angel had said to her: “He will be King, he will be great, he will be a prophet...”; and inside, surely, with that wounded body lying in her arms, that body that suffered so before dying, inside surely she wanted to say to the Angel: “Liar! I was deceived.” She, too, had no answers.
As children grow, there comes a certain age when they don’t quite understand what the world is like, when they are about two years old, more or less. And they begin to ask questions: “Papa, why? Mama, why? Why this?” When the father or mother begins to explain, they do not listen. They have another why this and why that?” But they don’t really want to hear the explanation. With this “why?” they are only drawing the attention of their mom and dad. We can ask the Lord: “Lord, why? Why do children suffer? Why this child?” The Lord will not speak words to us, but we will feel his gaze upon us and this will give us strength.
Do not be afraid to ask, even to challenge, the Lord. “Why?” Maybe no explanation will follow, but his fatherly gaze will give you the strength to go on. And he will also give you that strange thing about which this brother [referring to a testimony that was given by the father of one of the sick children] spoke in his double experience: a different feeling, a strange feeling. And perhaps this feeling of tenderness toward your sick child will be the answer, because that is the gaze of the Father. Do not be afraid to ask God: “Why?” to challenge him: “Why?” may you always have your heart open to receiving his fatherly gaze. The only answer that he could give you will be: “My Son also suffered”. That is the answer. The most important thing is that gaze. And your strength is there: the loving gaze of the Father.
You might ask, “But you, a bishop,” you have “studied so much theology, and you have nothing more to tell us?” No. The Trinity, the Eucharist, the grace of God, the suffering of children are a mystery. And we can enter into the mystery only if the Father looks upon us with love. I honestly don’t know what to say to you because I have so much admiration for your strength, for you courage. You said that you were advised to abort. You said: “No, let him come, he has a right to live”. Never, never is a problem resolved by discarding a person. Never. This would be going by the Mafia rulebook: “There’s a problem, let’s just get rid of it...” Never.
I accompany you thus as I am, as I feel. And, in truth, the compassion I feel is not fleeting, it’s not. I accompany you in my heart on this path, which is a path of courage, which is the path of the cross, and yet a path that will help me, your example helps me. And I thank you for being so courageous. Many times in my life I have been a coward, and your example has been good for me, it is good for me. Why do children suffer? It's a mystery. We need to call on God as a child calls his dad and says: “Why? Why?” to draw the gaze of God, which will tell us one thing: “Look at my Son, He too”.
The fact that in a world where it is routine to live according to the throw-away culture, what isn’t easy gets tossed out, you bear this condition so well, allow me to say it — I’m not flattering you, I mean it with all my heart — this is heroic. You are life’s little heroes. I have frequently heard the great concern of fathers and mothers like you and I am sure that it is the same with you: may [my son] not be alone in life, may [my daughter] not be alone in life. It may be perhaps the only occasion in which parents ask the Lord to take the child first, so that they not be left alone in life. This is love.
I thank you for your example. I don’t know what more to say, honestly, because these things touch me so deeply. I too have no answers. “But you are the Pope, you ought to know everything!” No, there are no answers to these things, only the gaze of the Father. And then, what do I do? I pray, for you, for these children, for the feeling of joy, of sorrow, all mixed together, which our brother spoke about. And the Lord knows how to soothe this pain in a special way. Let Him be the One who gives the right consolation to each of you, whatever you need.